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		<title>By: judybrowni</title>
		<link>http://www.lippsisters.com/2009/06/26/mothers-little-helper/comment-page-1/#comment-40640</link>
		<dc:creator>judybrowni</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Jun 2009 19:05:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks, Melissa.

My mother&#039;s problems also included the housewife malaise described by Betty Friedan, a husband taking full advantage of the &#039;50s &quot;head of the household&quot; ethos to control her, and the repercussions in her adult life from a childhood with an abusive father.

But barbituates prescribed as &quot;tranquilizers&quot; may well have been the tipping point in her suicide.

After initial testing that indicated barbituates helped sedate agitated and agressive patients in mental hospitals, the pharmaceutical industry decided to widen the market, with 1950s ads directed at doctors recommending them as a cure for unhappy housewives, so there were bound to be casaulties.

Of course, the actual cure for &quot;unhappy housewives&quot; was the women&#039;s movement, but that&#039;s another story.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks, Melissa.</p>
<p>My mother&#8217;s problems also included the housewife malaise described by Betty Friedan, a husband taking full advantage of the &#8217;50s &#8220;head of the household&#8221; ethos to control her, and the repercussions in her adult life from a childhood with an abusive father.</p>
<p>But barbituates prescribed as &#8220;tranquilizers&#8221; may well have been the tipping point in her suicide.</p>
<p>After initial testing that indicated barbituates helped sedate agitated and agressive patients in mental hospitals, the pharmaceutical industry decided to widen the market, with 1950s ads directed at doctors recommending them as a cure for unhappy housewives, so there were bound to be casaulties.</p>
<p>Of course, the actual cure for &#8220;unhappy housewives&#8221; was the women&#8217;s movement, but that&#8217;s another story.</p>
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		<title>By: Brenda</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brenda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Jun 2009 18:17:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mom had trouble sleeping when she was expecting me, and her doctor offered her tranquilizers. She was a medical technologist and knew enough to say no. Later on, another doctor offered her &quot;diet pills&quot; which were of course, speed. The more we find out about medication and its side effects, the more I feel sorry for people who popped pills without being able to research them.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mom had trouble sleeping when she was expecting me, and her doctor offered her tranquilizers. She was a medical technologist and knew enough to say no. Later on, another doctor offered her &#8220;diet pills&#8221; which were of course, speed. The more we find out about medication and its side effects, the more I feel sorry for people who popped pills without being able to research them.</p>
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		<title>By: Melissa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Melissa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Jun 2009 16:59:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So sorry to hear about your mother, Judy.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So sorry to hear about your mother, Judy.</p>
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		<title>By: Therese</title>
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		<dc:creator>Therese</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Jun 2009 15:28:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow, I missed this completely! I&#039;m youngest of 8, but I don&#039;t think my Mom took anything back in the day. (Thank God!) 

Also, the other night when Kodak announced that they were dropping Kodachrome, ABC News did a news bit on it, and they included a scene from &quot;The Carousel&quot; when Don is describing the slide projector!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, I missed this completely! I&#8217;m youngest of 8, but I don&#8217;t think my Mom took anything back in the day. (Thank God!) </p>
<p>Also, the other night when Kodak announced that they were dropping Kodachrome, ABC News did a news bit on it, and they included a scene from &#8220;The Carousel&#8221; when Don is describing the slide projector!</p>
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		<title>By: lamargarita</title>
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		<dc:creator>lamargarita</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Jun 2009 05:57:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yep, I caught that too, but I wasn&#039;t familiar with the brand-name &quot;Milltown&quot;; I just gleaned the meaning from the context of the scene. Thank you for explaining further! This is really interesting to know.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yep, I caught that too, but I wasn&#8217;t familiar with the brand-name &#8220;Milltown&#8221;; I just gleaned the meaning from the context of the scene. Thank you for explaining further! This is really interesting to know.</p>
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		<title>By: judybrowni</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Jun 2009 20:03:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A friend&#039;s mother confided that in the &#039;50s, isolated with small children in a suburb without a car (which her husband took to work), no money of her own (on an &quot;allowance&quot; which her husband doled out as he saw fit, right up thru the early &#039;70s) she made the mistake of crying on her doctor&#039;s shoulder, and he doled out the &quot;tranquilizers&quot; (barbituates).

Which kept her sedated enough to complain less to her husband (which may have been the point), but she was bitter still in the early &#039;70s &quot;I can&#039;t remember my children&#039;s childhood. They took that away from me.&quot;

My own mother was clinically depressed (which I&#039;m sure was described differently in the &#039;50s), which may have been genetic in her family, but her father had also been an abusive alcoholic. 

My mother saw a psychiatrist, unusual enough in our lower middle-class community, and I&#039;m told checked herself into the local mental hospital at least once, but her downfall may have been the barbituates the psychiatrist prescribed.

Described as &quot;tranquilizers&quot; then, it&#039;s now known that barbituates can have a depressing effect, which increased my mother&#039;s depression to the point that she killed herself in 1960.

So much for the &quot;mothers little helpers&quot; the Rolling Stones sang about in &#039;66.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A friend&#8217;s mother confided that in the &#8217;50s, isolated with small children in a suburb without a car (which her husband took to work), no money of her own (on an &#8220;allowance&#8221; which her husband doled out as he saw fit, right up thru the early &#8217;70s) she made the mistake of crying on her doctor&#8217;s shoulder, and he doled out the &#8220;tranquilizers&#8221; (barbituates).</p>
<p>Which kept her sedated enough to complain less to her husband (which may have been the point), but she was bitter still in the early &#8217;70s &#8220;I can&#8217;t remember my children&#8217;s childhood. They took that away from me.&#8221;</p>
<p>My own mother was clinically depressed (which I&#8217;m sure was described differently in the &#8217;50s), which may have been genetic in her family, but her father had also been an abusive alcoholic. </p>
<p>My mother saw a psychiatrist, unusual enough in our lower middle-class community, and I&#8217;m told checked herself into the local mental hospital at least once, but her downfall may have been the barbituates the psychiatrist prescribed.</p>
<p>Described as &#8220;tranquilizers&#8221; then, it&#8217;s now known that barbituates can have a depressing effect, which increased my mother&#8217;s depression to the point that she killed herself in 1960.</p>
<p>So much for the &#8220;mothers little helpers&#8221; the Rolling Stones sang about in &#8216;66.</p>
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		<title>By: JS</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Jun 2009 17:49:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>When Betty was initially introduced in season 1 I expected to see a scene where she was washing down some pills with her wine. Obviously she was never medicated, which I kind of like about her. 

As far as Francine&#039;s craziness, that scene where she talks about killing everyone was scary. I remeber my mom telling me that after her pregnancies, she and her friends would all go to this doctor who specialized in weight loss. He basically gave them speed, as much as they wanted. I was shocked at the time. LOL</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When Betty was initially introduced in season 1 I expected to see a scene where she was washing down some pills with her wine. Obviously she was never medicated, which I kind of like about her. </p>
<p>As far as Francine&#8217;s craziness, that scene where she talks about killing everyone was scary. I remeber my mom telling me that after her pregnancies, she and her friends would all go to this doctor who specialized in weight loss. He basically gave them speed, as much as they wanted. I was shocked at the time. LOL</p>
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		<title>By: Abby</title>
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		<dc:creator>Abby</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Jun 2009 16:26:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Long time lurker, first time poster! I also said &quot;holy shit&quot; when Francine was talking about Miltown.  

It reminded me of the book Divine Secrets of the Ya-Ya Sisterhood - the abusive 1960s mother, Vivi Walker, was on Dexamyl (half Dexedrine,
half Miltown) before she beat her children. Bad stuff.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Long time lurker, first time poster! I also said &#8220;holy shit&#8221; when Francine was talking about Miltown.  </p>
<p>It reminded me of the book Divine Secrets of the Ya-Ya Sisterhood &#8211; the abusive 1960s mother, Vivi Walker, was on Dexamyl (half Dexedrine,<br />
half Miltown) before she beat her children. Bad stuff.</p>
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		<title>By: Melissa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Melissa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Jun 2009 14:06:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It was the late &#039;70&#039;s when I was a little girl, so Valium was the drug of choice by then, but it really struck me. My parents were upwardly mobile,so Mom had two circles of women friends: one working-class, and the other, the older wives of Dad&#039;s upper-middle-class colleagues. I guess they were Francine and Betty, ten years along. Aside from their speech and dress, one thing that distinguished them from the other group is that they were all taking Valium. It came up in discussion every time there was a large group, comparing doses, side effects, etc.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It was the late &#8217;70&#8217;s when I was a little girl, so Valium was the drug of choice by then, but it really struck me. My parents were upwardly mobile,so Mom had two circles of women friends: one working-class, and the other, the older wives of Dad&#8217;s upper-middle-class colleagues. I guess they were Francine and Betty, ten years along. Aside from their speech and dress, one thing that distinguished them from the other group is that they were all taking Valium. It came up in discussion every time there was a large group, comparing doses, side effects, etc.</p>
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		<title>By: Deborah Lipp</title>
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		<dc:creator>Deborah Lipp</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Jun 2009 13:43:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I totally noticed it, and put it in the Cultural References. It&#039;s super significant; an entire generation of sedated housewives. 

We discussed maybe post-partum psychosis with Francine back at the end of S1; somehow she had to find a way to get it back together.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I totally noticed it, and put it in the Cultural References. It&#8217;s super significant; an entire generation of sedated housewives. </p>
<p>We discussed maybe post-partum psychosis with Francine back at the end of S1; somehow she had to find a way to get it back together.</p>
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