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		<title>By: Rosie</title>
		<link>http://www.lippsisters.com/2009/05/08/betty-on-the-phone-with-sarah-beth/comment-page-1/#comment-35317</link>
		<dc:creator>Rosie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 May 2009 16:35:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;I’m not exactly brimming over with sympathy for Sara Beth either. From the first moment we met her she was was complaining about how boring her perfectly nice husband was and lusting after Arthur. Fault Betty for stirring the cauldron but beyond that everything SB and Arthur did was of their own free will. They were both desperate for an affair and they got it.&lt;/i&gt;



Precisely.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>I’m not exactly brimming over with sympathy for Sara Beth either. From the first moment we met her she was was complaining about how boring her perfectly nice husband was and lusting after Arthur. Fault Betty for stirring the cauldron but beyond that everything SB and Arthur did was of their own free will. They were both desperate for an affair and they got it.</i></p>
<p>Precisely.</p>
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		<title>By: Deborah Lipp</title>
		<link>http://www.lippsisters.com/2009/05/08/betty-on-the-phone-with-sarah-beth/comment-page-1/#comment-35251</link>
		<dc:creator>Deborah Lipp</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2009 20:00:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>bee, I love how you position Betty&#039;s fling as an in-character result of the way she represses. Now I see it as a match for the chair-breaking incident. 

Ha! And now I&#039;m inspired to write a post.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>bee, I love how you position Betty&#8217;s fling as an in-character result of the way she represses. Now I see it as a match for the chair-breaking incident. </p>
<p>Ha! And now I&#8217;m inspired to write a post.</p>
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		<title>By: bee</title>
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		<dc:creator>bee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2009 15:57:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m not exactly brimming over with sympathy for Sara Beth either. From the first moment we met her she was was complaining about how boring her perfectly nice husband was and lusting after Arthur. Fault Betty for stirring the cauldron but beyond that everything SB and Arthur did was of their own free will. They were both desperate for an affair and they got it.

Betty is a very disciplined/repressed person and a (un)healthy dose of moral superiority often comes with that. Plus she was angry at SB for whining yet again about her perfect husband. I think she saw herself in the husband&#039;s shoes in that moment. She was also angry at Arthur for lying to her at the stables about having seen SB. Turns out Arthur wasn&#039;t just after Betty, he was after anyone who would have him. Just two more people for Betty to be angry at and disappointed in during season two.

Betty doing the hot guy in the bar is the perfect example of just how damned disciplined she is. It takes her being pregnant, tipsy and in the middle of a personal and world crisis to for her to be unfaithful. She&#039;s had the recurring fantasy of being taken by a stranger, the opportunity for an affair with Arthur, a perfectly healthy sex drive and a husband who doesn&#039;t appreciate her but it still takes a major crisis for her to sleep with someone else. Betty always just represses represses represses until she can&#039;t take anymore and it ends up coming out in strange bursts. 

In the recent Harper&#039;s Bazzar article about January, MW said something along the lines of how Betty&#039;s actions are half impulse, half pre-meditated which is a good description of her.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m not exactly brimming over with sympathy for Sara Beth either. From the first moment we met her she was was complaining about how boring her perfectly nice husband was and lusting after Arthur. Fault Betty for stirring the cauldron but beyond that everything SB and Arthur did was of their own free will. They were both desperate for an affair and they got it.</p>
<p>Betty is a very disciplined/repressed person and a (un)healthy dose of moral superiority often comes with that. Plus she was angry at SB for whining yet again about her perfect husband. I think she saw herself in the husband&#8217;s shoes in that moment. She was also angry at Arthur for lying to her at the stables about having seen SB. Turns out Arthur wasn&#8217;t just after Betty, he was after anyone who would have him. Just two more people for Betty to be angry at and disappointed in during season two.</p>
<p>Betty doing the hot guy in the bar is the perfect example of just how damned disciplined she is. It takes her being pregnant, tipsy and in the middle of a personal and world crisis to for her to be unfaithful. She&#8217;s had the recurring fantasy of being taken by a stranger, the opportunity for an affair with Arthur, a perfectly healthy sex drive and a husband who doesn&#8217;t appreciate her but it still takes a major crisis for her to sleep with someone else. Betty always just represses represses represses until she can&#8217;t take anymore and it ends up coming out in strange bursts. </p>
<p>In the recent Harper&#8217;s Bazzar article about January, MW said something along the lines of how Betty&#8217;s actions are half impulse, half pre-meditated which is a good description of her.</p>
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		<title>By: Melissa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Melissa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2009 12:58:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I know I don&#039;t always see Betty the way my friends do, Frank, but it didn&#039;t seem like relish to me. It reminded me of how my mother sounded after she&#039;d warned me 100 times not to do something, finally gave up and said, &quot;Go ahead; do whatever you like,&quot; and then I did it and got hurt.

Maybe she didn&#039;t have sympathy for Sara Beth, but then again **I** didn&#039;t have any sympathy for Sara Beth either, so it didn&#039;t seem odd to me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I know I don&#8217;t always see Betty the way my friends do, Frank, but it didn&#8217;t seem like relish to me. It reminded me of how my mother sounded after she&#8217;d warned me 100 times not to do something, finally gave up and said, &#8220;Go ahead; do whatever you like,&#8221; and then I did it and got hurt.</p>
<p>Maybe she didn&#8217;t have sympathy for Sara Beth, but then again **I** didn&#8217;t have any sympathy for Sara Beth either, so it didn&#8217;t seem odd to me.</p>
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		<title>By: Frank Bullitt</title>
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		<dc:creator>Frank Bullitt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 May 2009 23:28:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Melissa &amp; JS: you both bring up excellent points.  I wonder why Betsy so relished having the moral high ground while condemning her friend.  Does Betsy want to feel superior to those around her?  Does she lack empathy for her friend&#039;s unhappiness?  If anyone should understand Suburban melancholy, it&#039;s Betts.  I know it&#039;s cliche but what is her motivation?  Can any  Basketcases help me out?  I find her one of the most enigmatic characters on television.  She finds out she&#039;s pregnant, drops off her kids, has a couple of drinks, does the wild thing in a back office, on the eve of nuclear Armigeddon.  The silicon chip inside her head gets switched to overload . . .</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Melissa &amp; JS: you both bring up excellent points.  I wonder why Betsy so relished having the moral high ground while condemning her friend.  Does Betsy want to feel superior to those around her?  Does she lack empathy for her friend&#8217;s unhappiness?  If anyone should understand Suburban melancholy, it&#8217;s Betts.  I know it&#8217;s cliche but what is her motivation?  Can any  Basketcases help me out?  I find her one of the most enigmatic characters on television.  She finds out she&#8217;s pregnant, drops off her kids, has a couple of drinks, does the wild thing in a back office, on the eve of nuclear Armigeddon.  The silicon chip inside her head gets switched to overload . . .</p>
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		<title>By: You’re definitely in a strange place. &#124; Let's Fold Scarves</title>
		<link>http://www.lippsisters.com/2009/05/08/betty-on-the-phone-with-sarah-beth/comment-page-1/#comment-35142</link>
		<dc:creator>You’re definitely in a strange place. &#124; Let's Fold Scarves</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 May 2009 22:57:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] words during her phone call to Sarah Beth were harsh but I see disappointment in Betty’s reaction. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] words during her phone call to Sarah Beth were harsh but I see disappointment in Betty’s reaction. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Roberta Lipp</title>
		<link>http://www.lippsisters.com/2009/05/08/betty-on-the-phone-with-sarah-beth/comment-page-1/#comment-34083</link>
		<dc:creator>Roberta Lipp</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 May 2009 05:33:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Uh huh...?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Uh huh&#8230;?</p>
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		<title>By: Rosie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rosie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 May 2009 04:14:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;&quot;Betty was jealous of Sara Beth’s happy marriage (when SB came to borrow the dresses she told Betty that her husband was so easy to please and that he loved her). Betty wanted to ruin it, so she threw Sara Beth and Arthur together.&quot;&lt;/i&gt;


All Betty did was arrange a lunch between the two.  Sara Beth and Arthur were the ones who had decided to have sex.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>&#8220;Betty was jealous of Sara Beth’s happy marriage (when SB came to borrow the dresses she told Betty that her husband was so easy to please and that he loved her). Betty wanted to ruin it, so she threw Sara Beth and Arthur together.&#8221;</i></p>
<p>All Betty did was arrange a lunch between the two.  Sara Beth and Arthur were the ones who had decided to have sex.</p>
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		<title>By: DippityDeb</title>
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		<dc:creator>DippityDeb</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 May 2009 19:06:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Betty was jealous of Sara Beth&#039;s happy marriage (when SB came to borrow the dresses she told Betty that her husband was so easy to please and that he loved her). Betty wanted to ruin it, so she threw Sara Beth and Arthur together. 

And it&#039;s not just angry women that men are afraid of, but smart women, too. (I used to get told to smile a lot when I was younger. My sister and I are fairly attractive, but we were raised to use our brains, not our looks.) I&#039;m sure no one ever told Einstein to smile. 

Did you see that total idiot Donald Trump say yesterday that if Miss California wasn&#039;t so BEAUTIFUL, no one would care what she thought about gay marriage; according to him, it&#039;s only because she&#039;s so attractive that people care what she thinks? I couldn&#039;t believe it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Betty was jealous of Sara Beth&#8217;s happy marriage (when SB came to borrow the dresses she told Betty that her husband was so easy to please and that he loved her). Betty wanted to ruin it, so she threw Sara Beth and Arthur together. </p>
<p>And it&#8217;s not just angry women that men are afraid of, but smart women, too. (I used to get told to smile a lot when I was younger. My sister and I are fairly attractive, but we were raised to use our brains, not our looks.) I&#8217;m sure no one ever told Einstein to smile. </p>
<p>Did you see that total idiot Donald Trump say yesterday that if Miss California wasn&#8217;t so BEAUTIFUL, no one would care what she thought about gay marriage; according to him, it&#8217;s only because she&#8217;s so attractive that people care what she thinks? I couldn&#8217;t believe it.</p>
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		<title>By: Anne B</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anne B</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2009 20:35:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>B. Cooper:  nice shot.  :)  And happy birthday!  (I am smiling, BTW.)

SFCaramia, exactly.  Betty has been careful to direct her anger to specific people and circumstances.  

She waited until Carla left to unload on Don, after the dinner party.  She went after the dining-room chair when she thought no one was looking (either unware of, or heedless to, her stunned children in the next room).  She ranted over the phone to Sarah Beth - whether or not she was directing her rage &lt;i&gt;just at Sarah Beth&lt;/i&gt; -- when, and only when, SB called her to speak about the encounter.

Betty is clearly still close enough to her own childhood to be aware of her temper, and remember certain lessons about controlling it.  She still loses it, but public scenes like the one in the supermarket with Helen Bishop don&#039;t happen any more.  She&#039;s more careful, now, to contain the damage and limit the number of witnesses.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>B. Cooper:  nice shot.  <img src='http://www.lippsisters.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   And happy birthday!  (I am smiling, BTW.)</p>
<p>SFCaramia, exactly.  Betty has been careful to direct her anger to specific people and circumstances.  </p>
<p>She waited until Carla left to unload on Don, after the dinner party.  She went after the dining-room chair when she thought no one was looking (either unware of, or heedless to, her stunned children in the next room).  She ranted over the phone to Sarah Beth &#8211; whether or not she was directing her rage <i>just at Sarah Beth</i> &#8212; when, and only when, SB called her to speak about the encounter.</p>
<p>Betty is clearly still close enough to her own childhood to be aware of her temper, and remember certain lessons about controlling it.  She still loses it, but public scenes like the one in the supermarket with Helen Bishop don&#8217;t happen any more.  She&#8217;s more careful, now, to contain the damage and limit the number of witnesses.</p>
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